The unicorn search continues

As done previously with my desire for my boytoy, I am once again putting my wishes out into the universe and I have faith that these desires will once again be fulfilled.


So, what does this elusive gal pal (a.k.a. unicorn) encompass? In my mind's eye, she is 20something, in the 5foot height range, has some meat on her, she's not a fussy eater, or high maintenance. She is a true bisexual, not "curious" or whatever, but has some real life experience. Conversely, not someone with so much experience that it makes our roleplaying and fun and games more work than play. Nothing hardcore.
A young lady of taste and class that is seeking an equally classy dom as a mentor, friend and lover. Someone that has poise, manners and sophistication or at least enough of a good foundation of those qualities, that it makes it a pleasure to smooth out the rough edges. Truth is, you can't make a diamond out of a piece of coal.

She would have to possess the intellectual capacity to keep me stimulated and someone that loves to learn, has an open mind and is a true sub. Novices are such a bore, unsure and untrained. Seldom worth the time and effort it would take to finesse them. Furthermore, she would require a stout psychological base and understand that while we may play taboo oriented games, I am not interested in replacing or addressing her "mommy" issues.

A young lady with great time management skills, so that she has varied interests in her life, but can manage her time well, and doesn't try to control our relationship with "I am busy" but rather understands her importance of her role as my loyal and dedicated pet. I do after all make the time and give forth the effort to look after my pets well. That might be one key reason why I have so many boomerangs return. Even those I haven't met in real life.

You know, as I read over what I wrote, it seems like what I am truly seeking is.....me. In my 20's. Now that I think about it, no wonder my older friends were always been so taken with me. Sure, I look good (decent enough anyways), but it was those other qualities that made being with me and teaching me and guiding me, a pleasure for them as well.

Anyhow, I have faith as mentioned previously, that the universe will once again answer my call as it did when it sent Sterkarm into my loving arms.

The Lumberjack Song

You just never know...

what you'll find parked outside your workplace. Interesting looking little car.

 

 

Not your average bedtime story telling.

In real estate it's all about location, location, location.

Occupying what used to be a driveway, it's a one bedroom, one bathroom home that sits on a parcel of land 7.25 feet wide and 113.67 feet long. It's interior area is just under 300 square feet.

Here's the living room, looking towards the front of the house.

Here's the living room again, looking towards the back



Here's the kitchen. Note that despite the small space, they've managed to fit a washer and dryer into the place.

Here's the bedroom. It comes with a Murphy bed, which is a necessity in such a space. This is what it looks like with the Murphy Bed down.

And here's the bedroom with the Murphy Bed retracted:

You also get some patio space out back. Here it is, looking towards the front of the house:

And here's the patio looking towards the back:



Here are the home's 'Listed Features':

* Completely redone top-to-bottom,
front-to-back!
* Tumbled stone entrance walk
* Renovated Bath
* Renovated Kitchen with new stove, new cabinets and new stacked washer/dryer
* Bedroom with Murphy Bed + 'Built-ins' ... (doubles as a den)
* Walkout to fenced patio
* 100 Amp service
* 2 Satellite Dishes and Receiver
* Window Air Conditioner Available


THE PRICE ? ? ?

You get all this for....

ONLY $479,900.00!

Only in New York !

Even in the middle of a summer storm

Yes, baby pigeons do exist

And these two happen to have been made and hatched on my balcony.

The secret to great sex

Twisting yourself into fancy positions, lasting all night long, hauling in all kinds of gadgets, toys, and fancy lingerie: These are the things our society tends to push as necessary accoutrements to a long-lasting steamy sex life.
But Ottawa-based sex therapist and psychologist and her team of trusty research colleagues have unlocked the secret of great sex. And...wait for it...it is....drum roll please... 'being present, connection, deep sexual and erotic intimacy, extraordinary communication, interpersonal risk-taking and exploration, authenticity, vulnerability and transcendence.'

I know, hardly the stuff of Cosmo's endless 'hottest new tips to a mind-blowing sex life' lists. Or, of quick-fix society that would much rather have a pill or a nose-spray or some other instant solution to improve their lackluster sex life.

And, most interesting, the bulk of Kleinplatz' research was conducted among older couples who'd been together for years. In a society that suggests sex is steamiest among young, beautiful hard-bodied hotties, it is undoubtedly refreshing news.

During their 5-year study, Kleinplatz and her colleagues conducted extensive interviews with people from three groups who reported that they enjoyed 'great sex' with their partner. The largest group being older people with a lifetime of experience, the second being people from sexual minorities (e.g., gay men, bisexual women), and the third being professional sex therapists.

In an interview in the Winnipeg Free Press, Kleinplatz is quoted as saying that, 'Unfortunately, popular culture tells people that great sex is about varying your routines, trying new positions, buying new sex toys.[...] Many people have bought into the message that if your sex life seems kind of dull, just spice it up.'

This sort of marketing, she says, just makes people feel more insecure about their sex lives and uneducated about their sexual technique because they are led to believe that the secret to sexual fulfillment is technical, that it's about better manual and oral stimulation techniques.

'No one had bothered to investigate empirically what makes for memorable, fulfilling, optimal sexuality,' adds Kleinplatz.

As a result, the reality of our partner's sexual needs is often different than our perception of them. For example, in the study, participants revealed how often they thought their partner wanted to have sex and, while the results showed that men's ideal frequency for sexual behaviours was greater than women's, both partners perceived each other's desired frequencies to be different than they actually were. In fact, the women often assumed their male partner wanted it much more than he actually did.

And, when participants were asked about the role that orgasm played in great sex, a higher number of participants said it was not terribly important.

The study, 'The Components of Optimal Sexuality: A Portrait of 'Great Sex'' is published in the current issue in The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality.

Happy Canada Day, eh?

What an amazing country my parents dragged me to at the tender age of 8!! Love you Canada, thanks for everything, but mostly for not being America.

Pride 2009 - Dyke March

Don't mess with Granny

I can't wait to be old and crotchety like granny here. Well....alright, not so much "old" but for sure have the freedom to speak the absolute truth. Goodonya gran!

Just don't get it

Why do people join social networking sites, claim that they want to meet new people and make friends, but are unwilling to get away from their keyboard and screen and actually meet in person?
I know I am old fashioned in some respects, but it seems that no matter how low I set my expectations, people will always find a way to disappoint me with their insincerity and fake intentions. Words with no actions to back them up. How boring and tiring. So happy to have someone in my life that is legit and trustworthy.

To all the boomerangs....

I could name you all, but life's too short, you know who you are. And since my words of "no thanks", "please delete me", and so on don't seem to have a great impact on you, thought my girls here having put it to a funky beat, might get the message across.

To those of us born between 1930-1979

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant.

They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can and didn't get tested for diabetes.

Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-base paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, locks on doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had baseball caps not helmets on our heads.

As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, no booster seats, no seat belts, no air bags, bald tires and sometimes no brakes.

Riding in the back of a pick- up truck on a warm day was always a special treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle.

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and no one actually died from this.

We ate cupcakes, white bread, real butter and bacon. We drank Kool-Aid made with real white sugar. And, we weren't overweight. WHY?

Because we were always outside playing...that's why!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. And, we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride them down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We did not have Play stations, Nintendo's and X-boxes. There were no video games, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD's, no surround-sound or CD's, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet and no chat rooms.
WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them.

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment.

Imagine that!!

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!

These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever.
The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.
If YOU are one of them? CONGRATULATIONS!

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our lives for our own good.

While you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave and lucky their parents were.

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it ?
~
The quote of the month is by Jay Leno: 'With hurricanes, tornados, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?'

"Life is a big, bold, daring adventure. Or it is nothing at all".

Random pictures and videos

Just stuff that either I shot or got sent and really like.

Toronto Islands - Private Gardens Tour