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FWB vs Booty Call
Correctly applied terminology is one of the cornerstones of a good relationship. So in the interest of better communication for more beneficial relationships, I offer the following clarification between Friends With Benefits (FWB) and Booty Calls.
A booty call is someone with whom you have little else in common but sex. You don't call them unless you have an itch to scratch, you don't buy them thoughtful gifts and you don't consider them a friend. You simply "fuck" them whenever you get the urge.
A FWB however, is the exact opposite. They are someone you generally like, in or out of the bedroom. They are someone with whom you can talk with, listen to, laugh with and do all those other great things friends are for.
It is not always easy to keep on the same page, and that is one of the pitfalls of a FWB relationship, as often times jealousy can rear its ugly head.
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